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Life: One More Reason To Live

Life, it has its own reasons, effects and consequences. It begins with a cry; it ends with a cry. Meanwhile it’s all about each type of emotions and feelings one can even think about. For some it’s a bone, for some it’s a bane and for rest it’s just about living. Yes, when it brings smiles we are thankful, thankful to the people around; when it doesn’t we hate it, we hate the same people around whom we were thankful, we hate ourselves, we hate the life we are living.

    Now a question comes to my mind: Do we have the right to hate ourselves? Do we have the right to hate our life? I gave it a thought, when I tried to search for the answer, I ended up asking another question: Did it was our decision to have this life? This time the answer was clear: No. We were not born of our own wish, we were given this life, it could have been willingly or unwillingly but the decision was surely not ours. Our life is not our own, it is gifted to us. Hence how come we own the right to hate ourselves i.e. hate our life, when it was never our own.  

    Last evening read a real life story of a girl who after failing in love ended her life, leaving her old disabled parents behind, living a life bitter than death, but in spite of this they didn’t took the same way which their loving daughter took. They decided to dedicate what else countable heartbeats they possess for the welfare of the nature, for the welfare of the needy, for the welfare of the society.

    What the old parents did was bravery, why do I called it bravery not because they were able to hide the pain of loosing there own young daughter, but because they were brave enough to live, to survive the toughest of the times which we cant even think about facing, brave enough to live there life and not letting it become futile instead to make it fruitful, fruits which can serve the people around, serve the society. They are a lesson in themselves, lesson to change the aim. The parents who were living for there selfish daughter (yes she was “selfish” who kept her wishes above those of people loving her) are now have a different aim, they have a different reason to survive. Such reason can be for anything for the wishes we have, for society, for nature, for animals, for needy, for nation or it could be anything which can pay back the gift of life. Be a tree, even when it’s out of fruits or flowers it doesn’t kill itself, it stands tall and gives shadows to the strangers without any expectations of getting return backs.

    The answer is, we don’t even have the smallest of the right to hate ourselves, yes we can hate others how much we want to but we can never hate ourselves and those who does for them I would say : “In the tough situation you are, it can be the mistake of your deeds but not the mistake of real you; who is crying; who wants to punish him/herself, ask yourself, can’t the deeds be corrected, can’t the aim be changed, think about it, yes you can correct your deeds, for that you have this opportunity to live long and get all your wrong decisions amended, even if you feel no one needs you, than its the people in worse conditions who need someone to help, needs you, act for them try living for them, make use of the opportunity and let the life you possess be proved as the best gift you ever had.”

    We have a beautiful life gifted to us, living it to the extent and spreading selfless smiles can only be one of the ultimate things we can aim for. Instead of expecting more gifts from it, giving few back are the better acts that can be performed by us on this journey full of strangers and hurdles. When have nothing to loose, heart don’t wants to beats, mind stops working, end expectations, just keep moving and serving all the way along. When the times are really tough slow down the pace but keep walking as the road is long and the scenes are numerous. Let you be the tough tree, spread the shadow, pay the debt, and grow to the new heights. Sky awaits you; Sun is waiting to see you next morning.

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Face The Courage

My father’s death made me strong: Sachin Tendulkar :
That was the most difficult stage of my life,” an emotional Tendulkar recalled.
He hailed his mother’s quiet strength that helped him in the darkest hour of his life.
Saying that she made him realise that someone has to take the responsibility of
the house. He reckoned that his mother’s strength made him more determined to perform for his country.
Tendulkar, who was 26 at the time when his father passed away, was struck by
the shock of his father’s untimely death during the 1999 World Cup in England.
He revealed how he flew back to be by his family’s side but his mother forced him to play for India.
“My mom said that even my father would have wanted me to go back and play, because if I sit back at home then it would possibly be the worst thing,” Tendulkar
told the media.

Ask Questions…?

We all have problems, it can be in any form, maybe an incapability, economic or social or just due to any other valid/invalid cause. Like any ordinary guy I too have faced a few problems myself, few of them related to physical incapability but most of them were due to state of mind; some call it ego others call it pride, but i call it FEAR.

Now, why do I call it Fear, Actually ego or pride don’t give birth to problems, it’s the fear to face the consequences creates a big hurdle between us and happiness. This state of mind is the root cause of all the major grief and miseries. It’s the fear to lower one’s pride or ego, fear to bring the real oneself in front of world is what create problems.

The question comes straight here is that how to face this fear? From my experience I would suggest the better way to overcome fear is to ask questions. Everyday people do many acts , acts of love and acts of hatred. Acts of love usually not needs any clarifications because they speak for themselves but acts of hatred do need clarifications. For us the best way to get clarification is to “Ask Questions”. Asking questions enable us to learn the reason behind the wrong act and prepare us better to solve the problem and face it with more confidence.

As being human we are blessed with the power to put forward questions, so that we can ask, why such thing happened or why it was didn’t? Most of the relationship problems take a big shape when we don’t clarify the matters with the other person. Questions have great power in them, they bring people closer, they make people to suppress fear(ego) and face the other person; which can in turn remove differences between relations.

That what i meant to say: One have to ask questions, to oneself, to others and find the answer.

To Be Happier & Live Friendly We Have To ASK QUESTIONS. So stand up and Start QUESTIONING…& believe me you will do a lot GOOD to you.

Be Creative, Do Small Acts With Love

Cleaning a floor can be tremendously creative act. Creativity has nothing to with any particular work. Creativity has to do with the quality of your consciousness. Whatever u does can become creative if u knows what creativity means.

Creativity means enjoying any work as meditation; doing any work with love. Are you thinking that if you paint, you will feel creative? But painting is just as ordinary as cleaning the floor. You will be throwing colors on a canvas. Here you go on washing and cleaning the floor. What is the difference?

Talking to somebody, if you feel time is being wasted, instead you would like to write a great book: then you will be creative, it’s not that way; a friend has come: a little gossiping is perfectly beautiful.

All great scriptures are nothing but conversations of people who were creative. If you really love something it is creative. It is you ego that is creating the trouble, Drop the ego and everything is creative. A holy man is an ordinary man who loves ordinary life, Chopping wood, carrying water from the well, cooking.. Whatever he touches becomes holy. Not that he is doing great things, but whatever he does, he does it greatly.

The greatness is not in the thing done. The greatness is in the consciousness that you bring while you do it. When I say be creative, I do not mean that you should all go and become great painters and poets. I simply mean “let your life be a painting, let your life be pottery”.

Happiness Is In Your Hands

Doing what your elders ordered in a respectful way is one of the ways of living happily, Happiness lies not in doing what you would like to, but in doing what makes your love ones happy. Doing what you want may give you happiness but it would be for a short term, for long term happiness bring smiles on the faces of your dear ones, though in achieving that end u may hurt yourself but the happiness you receive at the end is of enormous amount.

Sorrows are part and parcel of ones life, you can not avoid them and one should never try to run away from them. If you want to live happily face all grieves with a smile, because if you can do that you can do anything. Try to find out moment of happiness at the most and search for a smile everywhere. Buy smile I don’t mean that make your life a joke, be serious wherever it is necessary and enjoy every time whether it is necessary or not.

The lines are perfect—“woh sukhi hai jo khushi se dard seh gaya, aur rote-rote dusro ko hassi de gaya—Sankalp

Do It…

Have confidence in yourself, you are unique; you can always do what others can never. Give your hundred percent and do always have fun in whatever you do. As you never know what you may end up in doing.

Try to touch the stars you will definitely reach to the moon. Respect everyone from worst to best as it’s you who will be on the receiving end at the last not the others. Don’t worry if you are not happy but worry if you are unable to bring smile on the sad face of your love ones.

Spread love and peace all around yourself, as life and your love ones both are beautiful.. 🙂

What Is Love?

What is love…?

Love for some is mere attraction but for others it is life…

for some it just sex..

for some it is just part time feeling…

but in reality according to me…

love is when you are not you..

nothing out there except your love remains more important for you..

nothing can give you more smile then smile on the face of your love..


 

you are in love when you don’t earn to buy your happiness but to buy the happiness for your love..

you are in love when you always keep thinking of the ways to give happiness to your love..

you are in love when you leave most important of your works just to help your love..

you are in love when you feel worst when you find that you were not there for your love when he/she was in any sort of trouble..

you are in love when you take pain not to show or prove anyone but when you want your love not to feel that same pain..

so this means..

you are in love when you are no more for yourself but you live for your love…

 

your love can be a person, or an animal, or any abstract object around or anything that gives you pleasure..

but it’s definition is universal..

 

love is dedication…love is sacrifice…love is selflessness…

love is truthfulness…

love is humanity..